children...

The impact of domestic violence on children and young adults can be just as dramatic as it is for their mothers. Living within an abusive relationship can have a detrimental effect on children who look to their parents for a safe and loving environment without which children can not flourish. Witnessing, hearing or experiencing  abuse can inflict long term problems e.g. feelings of anxiety, fear, guilt, depression, insecurity and could contribute to behavioural problems which could lead to the inability  to form healthy relationships with others.

Children can be quite perceptive and can pick up on your fear and anxiety which could compound  their own feelings. Therefore it is advisable to let your children talk about their experiences as much as possible and for you to be as honest as you can  regarding the abuse/violence without instilling more fear.  Offering reassurance that events were not your children's fault will help to allay any fears or guilt they maybe feeling.


 

Entering a refuge and mixing with other children, who have experienced similar, can be therapeutic insomuch as children can openly  talk of their experiences to their peers without fear; have the benefit of trained child workers and counsellors to hand and generally learn to be a child again. We at TWR appreciate the effects of entering into the refuge can have on children  and aim  to support as much as possible. We have 2 family support workers and a play worker to assist in any way possible.

Regular activities and outings are organised to try and bring some normality into your child's life.  The playroom is available after school and during the day for pre-school youngsters.